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The Matrix has you... - 14/02/2026 Blog Entry

https://matrix.org/

Welcome to a new blog! This time we will follow up on my previous It's DiscordOver - 10/02/2026 Blog Entry. Now that the initial shock cleared and everyone made their move, we have enough information to decide what to do in regard to Discord's new age verification policies. Let's get started!
First, many of the fears that I exposed on my previous blog were confirmed to be true. My first fear was that Discord was using AI to scan everyone's messages in order to decide who gets an age verification request, they confirmed it on this tweet. My second fear was that the retrieved data would be used to assist governments in order to persecute people. Well, we are one step away, because Discord's age verification rollout has ties to Palantir co-founder and panopticon architect Peter Thiels. Uh Oh.

Aside the government and AI, Discord is irresponsible with your data. They have a bad track record and they could and will leak your information to all sorts of bad actors, like Russian hackers. For example, all messages on Discord are not encrypted, check out this article for more information: Discord end-to-end encryption: Can you turn it on?
Discord also has a massive presence of phishing scammers and people distributing malware, more often than not luring people in thanks to the Nitro feature set. And if you think that wasn't enough, check out Discord's damage control when their users get their personal information leaked online...
It is time to move on.

Welcome to The Matrix
Hacky.

I checked all the available options, and the one that convinced me the most is Matrix. In case you want to see what else is available, at the risk of going clinically insane, check out Discordless. I recommend that you watch the following videos on Matrix, regardless if you continue reading this blog.

Now, what is Matrix? It is an open-source, decentralized protocol for chat communication (like Email, but for chat, literally). That short phrase tells us a lot.
What this means is that everyone owns Matrix, as you can contribute code to it (open source) and run Matrix without depending on a big tech database cloud server (decentralized). This makes Matrix the most privacy Discord-like program that currently exists. Matrix is also engineered to get a power boost the more servers run it, as it uses a wide variety of behind-the-scenes tricks to smoothen things out for users while being more efficient than running everything on one big singular cloud.

Matrix has two very interesting quirks that shape this program's usage.
First, it has no interface. Before you run away, what this means is that YOU pick what interface to use, depending on what your needs are. For example, you can chat on Matrix by using your 3DS as the interface. Even with that freedom, Matrix.org goes out of its way to develop their official client. Element is the best interface for anyone starting out using Matrix, regardless of device. There is no need to use other clients unless you require other features; for example, I use NeoChat on my laptop because it is more lightweight on system resources. Another interface to keep in mind is Cinny, as it looks very close to Discord and it is one of the most polished ones.

The second quirk is security. Matrix enforces chat encryption whenever possible (person to person, small groups), and it forces account authentication on your device in order to keep things secure. If you log in, overwriting your security information, it will delete a lot of crucial information for security.
Unlike other programs, aside from asking a password on account creation, Matrix gives you a passkey you need to save in order to verify your device. Another option to verify your device is to do an easy "do the emoji match" question with another device that has your account logged in. Don't skip proper security when you install Matrix.

The last and most important thing to keep in mind is to pick a location for your account. Due to the decentralized nature of Matrix, you need to pick a server for your account to live in. All Matrix interfaces default you into using Matrix.org, the official one. That is generally okay, but due to the current censorship-heavy climate, it is best to lean into the decentralized features and use a less populated client.
This is what Matrix recommends in their latest blog post, Welcoming Discord users amidst the challenge of Age Verification. Be warned, the Matrix.org instance will do some form of age verification too due to UK law!

The best thing is that you check out Public Matrix Homeservers for one that fits your needs. Remember, you need to follow the rules and legislation of your server of choice. The one that I am currently using is Unredacted.org, as they are very open about their mission and determined to not let their users be victims of goverments. In fact, they provided some extra legal information about age verification on this post: The UK Online Safety Act & age verification.

Some bonus things. If you are looking for spaces to frequent inside Matrix, check out MatrixRooms.info

A Bright Future
What's your point of view?

Discord is a Monopoly. Discord is the only one with all the features and polish that users want, and that is why it grew so big. To decide, we need to look at the future.

What do you think Discord will look like in 5 years..? Even worse, got it. I thought so as well. Nobody knows what they will do, but expect bad things; it will get worse. They will see that the population is powerless, and they will punish us.

Now look at Matrix's future. It looks a lot better. Let me explain why.
There are countless developers working behind the scenes to make it better. You can go right now into the Matrix Specification Proposals and see many of the new features that are in the works. Some of these include custom emoji & stickers, app theming & screensharing. I can guarantee you that Matrix will get Easier, Better, Faster, Stronger in 5 years. And you know the best thing? The more people are interested in using it, the faster it will grow!

If you want to see a bright future, please Support Matrix. We have around 20 days before Discord rolls their changes out and it could be catastrophic. I am hard at work to migrate my small Discord server dedicated to retro things, Galactica Arcadia over to Matrix and to convince many other friend groups of mine that this is the correct path.
I am decided and my hand won't tremble if I have to leave many people behind. You only have one ID, but you can have many new friends.

If you happen to use Discord, what will you do about this? What's on your mind? The clock is ticking.
Thank you for reading this blog.

I can only show you the door. You're the one that has to walk through it.